Episode 136

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6th Aug 2026

S3:E06 - Dr. Ken Kemp | LGBTQ+ and being Black in America.

Buckle up, folks. Today’s episode is a powerful mix of heartfelt honesty, mental health truths, and a behind-the-scenes look at what it really means to be an LGBTQ parent in the modern world.

Spoiler: It’s not all unicorns and rainbows, well, actually, sometimes it is and that’s the point.

In this episode:

  • The importance of mental health support for Black boys and how society tends to overlook it
  • How conversations about feelings and emotions can reshape cultural norms for Black men and boys
  • The impact of being a dad and husband on Dr. Ken’s journey towards vulnerability and authentic parenting
  • The nuances of coming out in a world that’s still figuring itself out
  • Building community intentionally, because friendship isn’t just "hanging out"
  • The reality of sports, scholarships, and the hustle mentality in youth athletics
  • The real story behind cheerleading competitions and the heavy investments behind the scenes
  • Insights into leadership, advocacy, and balancing a career in education, mental health, and politics as a Black LGBTQ dad

And remember: Representation isn’t just about visibility; it’s about showing up authentically, supporting each other, and breaking down barriers, one heartfelt conversation at a time.

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Real stories from the men who chose fatherhood and everything it took to get there.

From adoption and fostering to IVF and surrogacy, Fathernetics explores the journeys behind modern dads, who they were before, what they faced, and who they became along the way. Centered on LGBTQ+ men, with occasional perspectives from women reflecting on their own fathers, these are honest, unfiltered conversations about identity, resilience, relationships, and the realities of building a family.

Because becoming a dad isn’t simple and it’s never one-size-fits-all.

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