Episode 141

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Published on:

10th Sep 2026

S03:E11 - Chris & Robbie | What's Up With the Cordovas?

What happens when a Britney Spears superfan, Pride celebrations, and the emotional journey to parenthood all collide?

In this episode of Fathernetics, Jameel Mayers sits down with Chris and Robbie to talk about building a family through surrogacy, celebrating Pride as parents, and finding joy in the unexpected moments along the way. Their story moves from unforgettable pop culture memories to the realities of fertility treatment, financial planning, and raising a daughter in today’s world.

Whether you’re exploring surrogacy, already parenting, or simply looking for an honest conversation about LGBTQ family life, this episode is full of laughter, practical insight, and encouragement.

In this episode

  • Their unforgettable Britney Spears concert story and the fan moment they’ll never forget
  • The debate over which anniversary actually counts
  • How Pride celebrations changed after becoming parents
  • Why representation matters for LGBTQ families
  • The emotional and financial realities of surrogacy
  • IVF transfers, setbacks, and staying hopeful
  • Parenting fears, school acceptance, and preparing for the future
  • Building a family through patience, community, and resilience
  • Why love, consistency, and yes… snacks, solve more problems than you’d think

Timestamps

00:00 Introduction

01:20 Britney Spears concert memories

02:28 Proposal plans in Las Vegas

03:52 Anniversary debates and family traditions

10:52 Pride before and after becoming parents

26:34 Why LGBTQ representation matters

36:43 The surrogacy journey begins

47:58 Parenting fears and navigating acceptance

51:01 Dreams for their daughter’s future

51:52 The parenting essentials: love, patience, and snacks

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Chris & Robbie - @keepingupwiththecordovas

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Fathernetics
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Real stories from the men who chose fatherhood and everything it took to get there.

From adoption and fostering to IVF and surrogacy, Fathernetics explores the journeys behind modern dads, who they were before, what they faced, and who they became along the way. Centered on LGBTQ+ men, with occasional perspectives from women reflecting on their own fathers, these are honest, unfiltered conversations about identity, resilience, relationships, and the realities of building a family.

Because becoming a dad isn’t simple and it’s never one-size-fits-all.

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